Many couples set up rules for themselves so that each partner understands what is and is not acceptable. This is an excellent idea, especially for beginning couples to safeguard against hurting someone's feelings.

Rules can be anything from no oral, to no pain. Whatever each partner is comfortable (or uncomfortable) with. Rules should be explained to any couple that you plan to be with, they need to know what is expected. Don't be afraid to change your rules as you experience the lifestyle more and more.

Most couples start out with a few rules, and then they change and change again. When Michael and I first started out in the lifestyle I was much more jealous than he was so our rules were... single guys were awesome ( I like my men!), couples were a definate... but... Michael could only be with me. That's where my comfort level was and Michael respected that without complaint or pressure. All of that changed after...no...durring our first couples experience and at this point we have one simple rule. Whatever we do we do it for the benefit of our relationship. This means that we swing together and apart as long as there is some way to share the experience and we both have discussed the situation previously.

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